My H and I have now been back together for a year and a month working at peicing our marriage back together.
It is definetly worth the work. Sometimes I question that, but then I stop and remember the way I felt so terrible when we were apart. I am so much better now and much happier with life in general than when he was gone.
It is not easy. I am often worried and suffer with offering forgiveness easily. I keep a lot of my fears to myself and sometimes they eat me alive. But then, after time passes I always end up realizing that I didnt need to be worried to begin with.
H and I are bonding well and doing new things for our relationship. Our life has changed so much over this past 3 years. The hardest part right now for me is that I feel like I have lost so many of my old friends. They are all still nice, but they do not call and invite us very many places. Now we hang out with so many new people. None of them feel as good or as real or as close as my old group of friends were to us. Oh well. I cant change it. Anyone else go through that? Thanks, Tipper
