Trying to detach from the madness!

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Dinner was fun. Its so nice to get along with my first ex. My kids have always been relaxed and not tense.We discipline the same and everything. I may catch them doing more, but he will always back me up.

Exh sent a few more texts in the afternoon yesterday. I was short and to the point and he asked why I was so impersonal. I told him I wasn't, just busy. He asked why I have to be this way. I said it was best and it saves hurt feelings. He didn't like that much and went on to ramble a bit.

It absolutely drives me crazy that he obviously does not want to change what he is doing yet is fighting hard for me not to move on. Why? Whats the point?