It does make sense. I think he does, in a sense, want to be home, be with me and his family. But everytime he does, he has yet to go through the withdrawal from giving up ow and everything blackslides.

If not to proceed with legal, what are the options?

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09