First Piecing Thread

[Hope4us]

Thanks for the comment FI.

Weekend was typical. We have great times together, laugh, talk, etc, but again, something is holding her back.

We're a normal married couple in all senses of the word, EXCEPT the closeness.

Saturday we had a great day. Spent most of the day working in the yard. Evening we went to 'our' little pub/grill. Had a great time. A couple times during the evening she would move in close to me (we were sitting at the bar) as I had my arm around the back of her chair. She'd lean in and snuggle a little, and then something hits her and the next thing I know she's moved as far as to the other side of her chair.

In not my best DB moment, I let it affect me. I know I shouldn't have reacted, but it's just so darn hard. I said to her "How bout if I move my chair away from yours so you don't fall off yours"? She said "I'm fine".

It really made me angry. I didn't show it, but man, I could have exploded. We went home shortly after and she was fine for the rest of the evening. Sunday morning I told her I was sorry for getting upset Saturday evening and she said "I didn't know you were". So she either didn't catch my upset tone or didn't want to ask me why I was upset (which she didn't).

Sunday we did a little shoppig and then went to a graduation party. Party was pretty boring as we didn't know anyone but the mother of the graduate, so we left after an hour. Went home and had good evening.

So all in all, still another good weekend. W talking about future things, etc, but there's just that one little (BIG) thing holding her back and I don't know how to get past it.