snodderly thanks for posting..It does make sense that XH may be in the depression deeper now and hopefully he will figure out what he did and what he wants
still hoping thanks for visiting and your support..I am also following your thread peace
ON another note I am still deciding what to do about friend Just when I think I let go,,I am dancing wih him again and having a great time again I am also beginning to wonder about getting closer and exploring what this may be like with him danger zone I feel stronger now..maybe I can explore but XH and i still have yhis co parenting therapy which xh agreed to go..I have put it off the last few weeks as I havent felt ready to go I found a different therapist other one felt wrong on phone so maybe in the next few weeks we will go but I fear XH will just BS his way thru it and will be a waste of time peace
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