If there's anything I learned from coming to this board and reading people's posts, it is this: "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result."
Now, I'm not calling anyone insane, but I think insanity's definition definitely applies to this thread. We all have been telling Kevin to seek professional help/counseling, to not pursue and keep asking his W questions about the R, to focus on himself instead of the W and what she's been doing, etc., etc., and Kevin has never listened to any of them, and yet we keep telling him the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Perhaps it's time for those still willing to support Kevin to do something different?
Sorry, but I gave up on him a long time ago. I only follow this thread so I can learn from all the insightful and well-meaning posters' (thank you 25, City Girl, etc.) well-thought out advice....Your suggestions/recommendations may not have had any effect on Kevin, but I did learn a lot from them. Thank you!