Hi sunshine /Renee so sorry to read about your situation- a long marriage ended and for what?I do believe that Snodderly is right- they must think about us and the mess they have created. Your ex,unlike mine,rushed divorce through because he thought that would solve his problems. The fact that he has changed partners-younger girls -shows he may be in a mid life crisis I think.Do you ever see him ? Mine is too guilty to call!I also got the ILYBINILWY I think they have a script! Take care. We can live without these confused men for now-though I still love mine.