Thanks for your advice about the new thread. And you're right that I will have to be the one to work on saving it. I'm just such a mess right now, so I can't seem to come up with a plan.

Needinghope

Me: 30
H:29
M: ~6 years
No kids
H's EA: 3/07-10/07
H talking to OW 3/08-10/08 (What is it with him and March?)
Found 1 email to OW: 4/09
H moved out: 6-5-09