Intersting his Mom guilts him. My MIL barely talks to my H and when she does I know there is no talk about us. They are conflict avoiders in that family for sure. They too are devistated, we are VERY close. Dang...I really sounded bad there with all of my excuses. This is just how my mind works, and when I finally suck it up and say "enough!" I do the things I want to do. I do take pics and even had a friend ask me to take some of her friend and all of their kids. I did the whole thing with tears in my eyes but when I went to edit, I was totally engulfed. I should do that more. I just sometimes feel like it is pointless, because I don't have any formal training so i want to take classes and get more involved. I know, LAME! I guess we all have to go thru our phases... I am so glad that you are where you are though. You sound really sure of yourself and that is great. I don't blame you for picking up H. Did he ask or did you offer? I don't think my H would even ask me if he needed a ride. How long was he gone this time?
