Yeah, I suppose I could be overreacting. The problem is, my W and I have really poor boundaries around this kind of thing. That has led to much of the time we spend together, but it also can lead to things like this. I'm trying to maintain my PMA, but when my kids express regret about my not being with them, that's when I buckle. :-(
I'm so torn about this whole boundaries thing. If I insist on strict boundaries, then I'm forcing my W to fully live with the consequences of her actions, but I also lose out on quality time with my kids. I wouldn't wish this choice on anyone!
I definately relate...I HATE splitting my kids. It is like torture. I absolutely hate not being able to have access to them when they are with him. Pure torture.
