my advice to all of those waiting on their loved ones to return or if they have returned my advice is to take it one day at a time, do not dwell on what the R was like with the other person, don't even go there. Concentrate on you and your loved one and take it one day at a time.
my h is glad this is behind us, does not want to ever experience this again.
really, things are better then i ever thought they would be.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19