Great post KarenMarieS, Thank you.

Dawn:
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These spouses just become such different people from the ones they were before...my H loved riding bicycles

My H too. He became Lance Armstrong for a few years. Then stopped cold turkey. He finally took his bike with him a few months ago but I know he's not riding it.

And Sunshine, I think you said your H lived for fishing? Mine too. Has he fished since becoming involved with the OW? Nope.

I don't know why they change. Soon as I figure it out I'll write a book and make millions!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10