Faith: I wish I could say the same, not entirely out of the blue for me.
My W is actually was the type of girl who would internalize things constantly, never saying her true feelings for months and months, until it would come to a head and she'd blow up, telling me she couldn't live this way any longer.
She should have been releasing it a little at a time instead of harboring, and resenting so much.
So I guess I had ample warning, every 4-5 months. I would always "own it", and try to correct the issues I had, But the true change did not happen until I was backed into a corner with something to lose...Pretty selfish I know, not willing to truly change until faced with losing everything, my largest act of selfishness thus far.
_________________________ Me 42 W 34 D 5 S 3 S 2 M 3 yrs T 8 yrs ILYBINILWY 2/23/09 same house, same bed no intimacy
