Just like mine. No warning. W even admits she did not tell me she was unhappy and had been in counseling for 6 months before telling me.
Then, when she tells me she wants D, says she is "done," that she will not go to counseling, will not talk about reconciliation and that she is "resolute" in her decision.
I may be able to forgive her one day for the D, but I do not know that I can forgive the WAY she is doing it.