Thanks everyone I appreciate it.

Ex dropped the kids off today.

I was in the bathtub.

Ex walked around in the house and eventually left after about 15 minutes.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11