I'll jump in here too, I seem to have a one good day, one crappy day. That extreme hate feels so bad, but it sure is good to know so many others are going through it too. I think it just stems from the total lack of control.
Someone else is deciding the fate of our lives and our childrens, and there is piss all we can do about it.
I know in my marriage I was always the one to make all the decisions, my W was always so indecisive about so many things, I guess it was the strategist in her, always wanting to reason everything out for two hours before making a call on something so unimportant.
We too were one of the couples that when telling others about our situation they are speechless, and blown away. Sure seems like alot of us in the same boat tonight.
_________________________ Me 42 W 34 D 5 S 3 S 2 M 3 yrs T 8 yrs ILYBINILWY 2/23/09 ILYBNILWY 4/20/09 Still in same house, separate rooms
