WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

I'm wondering what your take is. How specifically did you take advantage or violate her trust? Sorry, maybe I should read back...is it just that you didn't appreciate her enough, worked too much, took her for granted?

My take is the traditional I worked too much and took her for granted. I focused on the things vs giving her myself. Someone said it early, as a WAW, it would have taken so little to make her happy but I didn't get it then. I get what she wants now, but she says that she's too hurt and doesn't trust me and doesn't want to be my wife anymore because it was so hurtful

I had beat myself up pretty bad about it. I'm trying to work through my own guilt. I'm not doing a very good job at it but am still trying.

Thanks for the time and support