Actually, his big complaints about me, especially as of late-
-Always being on his back about everything - checking phone records, bank accounts, etc. Grilling him about things - he has not given any indication that he would ever cheat on me, but I am so suspicious about everything anyway.
-That I have no life of my own - he's been trying to get me (for the past couple of years) to go out with my friends more and do things I like to do. Always is more than willing to stay at home with DD while I go out.
Both of these things, I'm fixing, and having lots of fun doing it!
"Enjoy the 'you' who is emerging. Stop giving him prime real estate in your mind.. trying to figure him out only saps your energy and takes away from positive growth on your part. And learn to listen to your inner voice within."
This is so true, and great advice.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
