I think my W feels that way too - "When is my time?" Only problem is, I was attentive, I did help with household chores, I was there for the kids. I am better now than I was before. Wasn't perfect before, but who is - oh yeah, she will be the one to find the perfect person out there who no one else has ever managed to. Sorry, that was petty. But it felt good to get it out.