Not to put down any of our lovely men, but I don't think he has quite given himself time to reflect and I am not sure that men "need" that like we do. Sure he might "get" it here and there but not sure that he sat there just trying to evaluate the whole thing. He just knows that he feels lovely when he is with you and for now that may have to be enough. Don't over evaluate or you will stress both of you out.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory