I think my W is using me to keep from feeling other feelings. What I mean is that she dredges up things to make her angry (shaking mad) so that she can avoid the other feelings of guilt and worthlessness.
AJ - I can relate to this... sometimes I think H looks for things wrong in what I've said or done to avoid the emotional mess he's made of me. I may be fairly good at covering it, but I'm not an actress.
How much are you seeing W now that she's moved out?
It appears the kids are doing ok... What is the wear and tear you see??
Good to see you!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
