OMG, HopefulinVA, your post is right on the money! It is exactly what I am going through, too. He is out having a great time, where I am just feeling hurt and sad, but trying to have a good time. It is not easy.
Right now I just want to say to my H, "F you, F you, F you, F you, F you"! One big "F you!!!" Sorry if I offended anyone, but after reading this thread, I just want to let it all out!!
Me: 48 H: 47 M: 16 years Separated: 4/24/09 3 cats, no kids My Story