Karen, the school counsellor told me that it's very ironic that two people who decide to separate because of differences then have to work closely together and communicate effectively with each other so they can co-parent, at a time when they want to have less contact with each other.
I know it's all very tough, with the endless string of e-mails. My H refuse to do any planning at all so we are up in the air most of the time. I have decided to take the bull by the horns and schedule things for US.
In regards to H's multiple requests, there is no way where you can have a REGULAR schedule for the kids? It sounds as though things change every week.
Just a thought so the kids know what to expect every week and is on routine. I think this might work well for everyone involved.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09