I know where you're at. My H and I have also been separated since March. I too did the begging, crying, etc. I have been trying to do a 180 and I've even done LRT here and there. Things were working until a setback last week. See my other posts.
Anyways, now we're back to square one. But I've changed. I have been working on myself and I'm doing well, strong. I know I can do it alone if I have to, but I don't want to.
Obviously, since I'm in the same boat, I feel awkward giving you advice. But your W needs to figure out her stuff and in the meantime keep up with the GAL.
Keep giving her space, being kind, DON'T make her feel guilty, that will drive her away for SURE. Good luck, stay strong!
Me 39 H 42 M 11, T 12 S 10,6 D 3 EA 2007 separated in same home since 3/10/09
