I like to think we (LBS's) were chosen for that role precisely because we are the stronger ones in the M. Unofortunately, we are going to bear the lions share of the grief.
I almost chukle (or grumble) when I recall my W telling me it hurt her to know how much she was hurting me. Sorry, but whatever I did could not possibly have warranted the pain I am receiving. I am not hoping this pain on W, but maybe their share of this comes when they finally realize what they are searching for, they already had. I fear that in my case it will be too late when W realizes that, if she ever does.
AND, W has shown nothing but happiness or anger (mostly happiness) since dropping the bomb.
We are all in this together, so let's help each other.
