Can anyone answer this? Part 8

[Creed]

Honestly, at this point, I don't know what it hurt that she left him a message herself, instead of having S do it.

It's not like her H can file for divorce because he gets pi$$ed about it....they're already divorced.

As long as she doesn't call him about anything but life and death situations in the family, he'll live. If she calls him about petty , unimportant things he'll continue to badmouth and blow her off.

Sun knows, from what we've all told her, that her xh is no different than our spouses/ex-spouses. It doesn't matter who she thought he was...he's not now, and may never have been exactly who/what she thought.

If she wants things to decline, she'll keep up her old habits. If she wants to quit hurting as much and learn to live again, she'll take the necessary steps to do so, and that's concentrating on herself and the kids.

I remember how hard it was to get those 'rose-colored' glasses off. But once they're off, she'll catch on. Right now she's still dealing with denial that this 'thing' has actually happened to her and her family.

I remember how that felt too...you wish you could wake up and it was all a bad dream.

Reality always wins in the end.

I'm still sitting here trying to figure out what the heck a cornhole board is?????? LOL

Cornholioooo...I've heard when my boys used to watch Beavis and Butthead...but what is a cornhole board, and what do you do with it??