I just realised that H is not wearing his ring. When did this happen? What does it signify? Is this an outward sign that he is done with this?
I too have taken mine off for short periods but always put it back on. I won't let this get me in a negative frame of mind but it does hurt like hell.
He was quiet for the last few days and spending time in the dark. He seemed depressed. Now today he is smiling at me and laughing alot. Does this mean he is happy because the ring is off?
He has been at home a lot more and on the phone a lot lot less. Why? What does this all mean? Why is he not out enjoying the freedom that he wanted? Even when he goes out he comes back much earlier than when I was pursuing. It is confusing. He has made it clear that he is not moving or filing.
I realise I am trying to do the impossible i.e get in someone's head. That won't get me anywhere so I guess I will keep on doing me and following through on the plans I have for GALing etc.
Any thoughts anyone? Can you help put a perspective on this?
