Don't Let Them Eat Cake

[In Limbo]

Snodderly,

I have absolutely no plans to leave my home. I am the 99% caregiver for our children and would never uproot them unless we were in danger. As for the master bedroom, I have no plans to leave that either. I've made that mistake before and don't plan to do so now. He is the one that wants to leave, so he should be the one to do so.

I'm not sure how to seek advice from a lawyer without him knowing since our finances are still joint. May need to save some $ up on the sly in my own account....

I've read a lot of your posts and appreciate your input. Take care!