I have not directly asked him to leave. All along since bomb, he has been the one that has said he wanted to move out. For a while he was staying away from the home during the week to try to "get his head straight." Then 3-4 weeks ago he just stopped and started staying home all the time. At MC, he said it was because he has decided he wants to move out. I have told him that if he has decided that he does not want to work at the R or to be married to me, then he should go.
I agree that I need to protect myself. I do think I'm in a good position from the research I've done so far. But I probably should do more.
Tks and take care!
Me 39 H 38 T22/M15 S11 S7 EA Confirmed 3/11/09 Sep Weekdays Only 4/09