Confused about what to do now.

[HHIF]

Thank you for your input.I understand what you are saying but it's hard to just sit and wait.She is not seeing anyone to try to figure out what's going on,it just feels like I've gone out of my way to let her know how much I love and miss her but she usally has no response.I know what you say is true time and space are what is needed but I've been back home for over a year and things havn't changed very much.Do i try to get her to go to a marriage counseler or is anything i do going to seem like pressure and push her further away.