WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[antlers]

This trust thing is really bugging me. She said she stopped trusting me a while ago. What the heck do I do about this trust thing?

I want to call her and talk about it but what the heck is there to talk about?

This just gets more and more complicated...

Man, this thing ain't even close to being over. Give her some time and space to work on her own issues...like the trust thing. You can't rush it, and you can't say something that'll make it better for her. She has to work through this stuff herself. Just be there if she asks you to be...otherwise, give her time and space. If you do interact, just be validating, strong, personable and caring...without surrender!