And I thought part of my H`s problem was the fact that he`s an Irish male! Seems this situation knows no boundaries!
Good to have company on this road. Havent much time tonight but will check up on your thread again in the am.
Just back from a brill weekend away with the kids-hope your BF gets to Co Clare! H didn`t even ask the kids how they enjoyed the weekend when they came back. Instead he pretended to sleep on the sofa