Thanks for all your replies. If I pack her bags, I highly doubt she will be returning.
It sounds like she's almost out the door. She's pushing you to do something. Sitting back and doing nothing, she will not have respect for you imo.
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I'm thinking what would Jesus do in this situation?
I do this too! What does the Bible say about adultery? If that's your way of deciding, I think Jesus would have thrown her stuff out on the grass. Adultery isn't looked upon favorably in the Bible, you know.
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I know that she was very insecure growing up and that she is still somewhat insecure as an adult. The OM is giving her the attn and "love" that I was not unfortunately.
Barf, barf, barf. Poor WAS was insecure as a child and a little bit now. That prob. describes about 99% of us LBS here. And did we have to have As to bolster our security. Puh-lease! You need to stop blaming yourself. No one here and no married person is perfect. We all get busy and don't show as much love as we should. Karen
