Is my sitch WAS or MLC?

[peacetoday]

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THeie moods change a lot
and I agree with snodderly
especailly in the begining my xh seemed very comfortable when he visited
he sometimes looked peaceful, normal and he was civil much of the time
what I didnt know behind the scenes was that he was spending lots of our money which he thought was his at this point
and living with a 28(younger then) OW
my XH started to get worse about 1.8 months or so after bomb
the money ran out
the ow euphoria wears off
he lost everything finanally and created huge debt

they are left with them selves
but unfortunately for most of these mlcer they lose a lot before they see what happened and it takes time for us to see the reality behimd what we think we see
peace