My MIL gave my exh the big AA book...the big blue book! She wrote in it that if he doesn't get sober he will end up like his father. He will loose everything. When I kicked exh out he left the book here. I tried to give it to him and he didn't want it. I read the Wives part. Good reading.
As much as I love my baby more than anything I wish exh was not her father. I wish I could walk away from him and NEVER EVER speak to him. Reality is that will never happen.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!