Fighting Fit,

I want to echo that your message helped alot. Although I am having a difficult time dealing with my anger regarding my H's selfishness in having an affair (he's in MLC), it does help greatly to think that this is just a stage he is going through. He's changed so completely over the last few months, but I just can't believe that the 'real' man isn't still underneath all of the destructive behaviors.
I really needed the encouragement. Thank you.


Me - 38
Husband - 40 MLC!
Together 12 years
Married 11 years
Still the love of my life
Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair

H started D paperwork 5/13/10