I want to echo that your message helped alot. Although I am having a difficult time dealing with my anger regarding my H's selfishness in having an affair (he's in MLC), it does help greatly to think that this is just a stage he is going through. He's changed so completely over the last few months, but I just can't believe that the 'real' man isn't still underneath all of the destructive behaviors. I really needed the encouragement. Thank you.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair