hey B.

I don't have time to catch up, but wanted to say I was thinking of you and hope you are well and not sick anymore.

I noticed you mentioned the cry-it-out method in the last thread.

I know that after going thru the initial crying it out, it makes for easier bed time and such, however, I just have to share this info because I am very strongly against that method.

There was a harvard study done and shows that this method is damaging, as in life long damaging. so please read it and make an informed decision. I know so many people do it, but it doesn't make it healthy.

http://www.news.harvard.edu/gazette/1998/04.09/ChildrenNeedTou.html


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."