I don't have time to catch up, but wanted to say I was thinking of you and hope you are well and not sick anymore.
I noticed you mentioned the cry-it-out method in the last thread.
I know that after going thru the initial crying it out, it makes for easier bed time and such, however, I just have to share this info because I am very strongly against that method.
There was a harvard study done and shows that this method is damaging, as in life long damaging. so please read it and make an informed decision. I know so many people do it, but it doesn't make it healthy.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."