That may be the single biggest influence on why I allow him the time I do with the kids and at the house. I don't want to ever be the reason that he does not have a relationship with his kids. He is so good with them--albeit he was better before all of this happened, but he is still much better than many other men I have seen. Tonight, I wanted so much to give him a hug and tell him thank you for being a good dad for his kids. I probably will do it sometime in the next week. He needs to know that I do appreciate him and all he does.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
I think that would be a great idea.
and good job taking the kids anyways. If DH's reasons were really because of your mom, I'd like to see his look when he finds out she wasn't there and you guys had a blast.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
