I understand you are disappointed. You have a right to be. You stuck with this guy when he was drinking. Hard to do. He is now sober and you want to go on with life and people are saying he is still too fragile. That would tick me off too.

I don't know what the answers are. I guess its what you are willing to live with and for how long. YOU also matter. I get that the IC and people from AA are worried about him, but you and your feelings also matter.

Im sorry Kass. I am in a bad place this morning too. I could use some advice in my own sich.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!