Mike, if it is just questions for your own self, that is not a problem at all. being a "baby" christian, which I feel many times even being saved as a child I am still, is about learning and growing closer to him thru both the bible and thru using the help of other christians. My post was for those who are questioning SMW's faith and stand in her saved marriage.

Remember, even from a NONchristian viewpoint, this is all about attitude. If you are DBing without the right attitude and you don't believe you can't do this...well, guess what...you won't. Right now, this is a difficult time and what SMW needs is support for what she believes in. She needs people helping her push thru and keeping her positive.

Now, you may think I'm being hypocritical because for those who want to end their marriage or are giving up, I would do the opposite. But, that is because they are looking at the negative viewpoint. that their M will never get better, that their S will never change, etc.

does that make sense?


Last edited by S.T. _I Made It!; 06/07/09 01:38 PM.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."