TL it sounds like quite the adventures with the dating. I hear you on the not finding anyone like your h. You will need to cultivate a R all over again and it will never be the same. It will be different, but maybe not a bad thing.

You must have looked HOT! Enjoy that attention! Must be nice!

Interesting that your xh is still contacting you. Obviously he is still thinking of you.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"