whitelight,
A very long time ago, personal email addresses were allowed to be posted here. Once that happened and people began posting to each other off the board, phone numbers were exchanged. All of that changed about 2-3 years ago...because addresses were getting in the wrong hands, etc.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.