I dont know about a mistake - I think people and relationships are so individual, its impossible to say. maybe it will work, an if your a faithful man, then you may have the view that 'giving it up to god' is the best possible thing you can do for YOU...
pup not everyone has the fighting "gimme your best shot" dancing pose we do in life *grins* and sometimes I do wonder if I'd be better off the same, I bet I woulda missed a lot of emotional 'black eyes' LOL.
good luck in either case... hold onto you.
When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.
