Sandi I am so amazed at the post you wrote to innishannon. It was great and I learned so much from it. If you would could you please read or catch up on my sitch and post your opinion as well. Mine and innishannon's are similiar. Some others have given me wonderful advice, but I wanted your take on it as well. What you said to her makes soooo much sense. So much of my xh's behavior is in your post. My xh said to me once, just let me go through whatever it is that I am going through and you take care of the house in case we work this out. Now, I know they say believe nothing, but he sounded sincere. He, after 5 months being divorced, is still so resentful and bitter. We were still intimate for awhile (while waiting on the divorce and I believe a couple times afterward) and afterward he would get so angry, he told me he was angry not at me but at himself and if I didnt want to be subject to it, then I should leave. He would get so angry, that he would physically throw me out sometimes when I would not leave at his first request. I done so many things wrong up until around 6 months, which is just recently. I think you may have given me advice in the past, but I dont know how to list my threads so that I can re-read them. Thank you for you wisdom and time.
