I want to get some peoples opinions on how this last week has went and how I should perceive it. So my last post I told about how we had went through 2 days of pleasant conversation. That was on Tuesday. On Wednesday W called me all through the day. Some just to chat and such. Some to ask my advice on some things. Nice conversations and all. On Thursday I had my IC appt. at noon and W asked me if I wanted to go to lunch with her after it since she would be in the area. I told her yes and we decided where we would meet. Lunch went great. Food was good. We had good conversation about current events and then W and I somehow got on the subject of when she was pregnant and had a great laugh about the comedy or errors that was us getting to the hospital and the birth. As lunch was winding down she had to go to get to work and I told her she could take off so she wouldn't be late and I would take care of the check. So she gets up to leave and I tell her I hope she has a great day at work. She stands there for a minute staring at me and then says "get up and give me a hug". So I do. Nice long hug. We say goodbye and she goes to work. Then on Friday I had just a really stressful day at work. There are some layoffs and it looked like I wouldn't have a job after the end of the month. W called me to b.s. a little and could tell in the tone of my voice that things were amiss. She asked what was up and I told her. She was really empathetic about it and said that no matter what happened we (I stress the we) would get through it. I told her thanks for talking to me and I would see her later. Then about 4pm she called and said D3's school had called her and they had lost power in the building and wanted the parents to come pick up the kids. Since W works about 6 blocks away she went to get D3 and was waiting at her work for me to come get her. So I get there and we get D3 in the car. W sits there talking to me a little bit telling me about her day and the night before at work some. Then she gives me a lingering hug and a kiss on the cheek and whispers in my ear that everything is going to be ok. She went out after work last night and didn't come home until this morning (which isn't unusual) and was talkative with me again. Asked me how I was, how things were going. I told her I was feeling better and had a good day planned with D3. She then reached over and kinda grabbed my foot (and W hates feet) and kinda shook it around a little bit smiling at me and told D3 she was going to have a great day with daddy because she had the best daddy in the world. Now granted...this all feels really good to me. We have talked more this week than we probably have in the last month. And she hasn't touched me physically in over a month. So I take these as positive signs. I am cautious though. And I'm not going to jump on it and start pursuing and scare her away.....
Just want some advice on how to perceive it and how to proceed.
