Ok. I can do that. Just please help me do what it takes to draw my W back to me. I will follow what you tell me.
Kevin
Kevin, pay attention to this..."a reconciliation won't happen unless you put the work in yourself, take the pressure off of your spouse, and put some time and distance between the two of you. Then, it's possible."
Do this, man! Work on yourself...first and foremost! But do it because it needs to be done, and for no other reason. Take the pressure off of her and put some time and distance between the two of you...LOTS of time and distance Kevin! It's hard, but this is what needs to happen right now, and for the forseeable future! C'mon man! Do it! You HAVE to do this! And you can! But you've got to want to do it bad enough to actually do it!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.