but I do miss her, I miss the little things that added up to the marriage in my mind -- to which she replied she never noticed I liked them during the marriage, etc.
She never noticed? How could she have missed that?
You have such an opportunity here, Smiley Pants. She's telling you something very important here. VERY.
Cheers ~
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