Newly separated...spouse left, 4th thread

[BigJohn]

To be honest, I haven't read alot of the DB materials so I can't be sure.

GAL- which I assume is getting a life- well he was already gone enough so that wouldn't have worked on me at all.

What I wanted to see was a partnership- someone who valued me- respected me- and most importantly someone who wanted to meet my needs. Someone who listened to me and took the time to intimately know me.

I came here just primarily to help men who might need my perspective.

Kittyfish, I've read some of your posts. Your situation is very much like my wife's, except she wasn't nearly as aggressive as you were. Could you check out my posts as well and give me some feedback? My wife's current position is that she is "done", she doesn't believe people can change and right now doesn't care that I want to change. Any ideas on how I might be able to break through to her?