Exh went off on me today via text message. I was ignoring him and he was saying I should speak up if I want to work on things....I couldn't take it any longer.
I sent: "I want an honest husband. Can you be that? Nope. I bet you are still up to the same old sh**. Sneaky, wrong, and most likely immoral. Alot of innocent people will be hurt."
Yes, I was in a round about way talking about his married woman. I don't care. He is pond scum. Since I have seen those little carsets in her car I know she has little babies. How can he blow up a marriage like that?
He must have freaked and started texting about what I supposedly know. I didn't actually put that I know, but was hinting because of past history. Even without knowing about married woman everything I said was true. He sent 5 texts asking what I think I know. I never responded.
Then he sent "well, coach is honest, but at least I am not a control freak like you." Me? a control freak? Yeah, I guess wanting a sober, faithful husband made me a control freak. He then sent that 4 more times because I wasn't answering.
Haven't heard from him in a few hours.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!