Newly separated...spouse left, 4th thread

[antlers]

I wouldnt use anything. I would just note that you had sent a message on 5/27 and since you have not heard back with any objection you went ahead and made plans. I suppose there is a chance she never got the messsage but the chances of that are slim. Nine days is ample time to return a message, especially one that is so important. Clearly she thinks her time is of more value than yours so nip that in the bud right away.

I am ok - thanks for asking. I still really havent spoken to my new attny since my other attny left the firm. Still have some lupus related issues I am dealing with. My H e-mailed me earlier this week just to chat and I was polite but didnt feel like walking down memory lane with him. So far he has said he would do three things over the course of the last 3 weeks and he has done none so no chit chat for him. I just dont respect him enough to make chit chat and his constant bad behavior, cliches and BS just makes me ill. And there is no reason for us to be discussing a lawsuit anyhow - that is what our attnys are for.

I am good though - got a few things brewing once this divorce is final so we will see how things go!

I think I'm gonna modify futureunknown's response with some of yours, and send it later on tonight. I won't use the word 'assume'. She got the message because the kids mentioned it about a week ago. I don't know why she didn't respond to it. We've been having decent communication regarding the kids...she's even said 'thank you' and has been civil. Communication has been texting...short and to the point.

I'm glad you're OK. Sorry about the health problems...not to mention the attorney problems. I'm sorry that things aren't better with your husband right now. I'm also sorry that you're getting a divorce...unless it's what you wanted. I appreciate your input CityGirl. Was wondering about you since I haven't seen you post for a while.